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THERAPY FOR RELATIONSHIP ANXIETY & FAMILY TRAUMA

I help people who feel lost or overwhelmed
in their relationships.


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Maliyah Coye, LCSW

Online Therapist in Sacramento

I provide therapy for adults grappling with anxiety in their relationships and healing from family-related trauma.


My approach focuses on helping clients build self-esteem and break free from the compulsion to please others, empowering them to establish healthier, more fulfilling connections.

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You are enough. You deserve relationships that are calming, respectful, and loving. Your needs and intuition are to be honored, not ignored.



What stops you from feeling

safe in relationships?

The clients I support often struggle with setting limits and seek therapy to better understand their anxiety and guilt in relationships. I provide support for individuals who find themselves constantly ruminating and reviewing their interactions, helping them find peace and clarity.


Therapy May Be for You if:

  • Family members often place immense pressure on you to achieve success, leaving you feeling undervalued and unappreciated, while their absence demands that you give more than you receive.
  • In your relationships, you find yourself longing for constant reassurance, or plagued by an overwhelming fear of rejection and abandonment that hinders your ability to fully connect.
  • You are exhausted and overwhelmed, constantly prioritizing everyone else's needs while neglecting your own well-being.
  • Feelings of anger, guilt, anxiety, and resentment have become common companions in your relationships and at work, draining your energy and peace of mind.
  • By holding yourself back and playing it small, you've missed invaluable opportunities for love and career advancement.
  • You experience survivor's remorse, grappling with feelings of guilt for your own success while others around you struggle, which weighs heavily on your conscience and impedes your joy.
This is me. I'm ready to discover a new way to be.


Feeling confidence and joy in your relationships is possible. You have an unyielding power to change, break patterns, and feel more connected and calm.



Your Sacramento Therapist

Let's work together to get you where you want to be

I help clients in the areas of:

  • self-esteem
  • managing stress 
  • dating
  • childhood neglect
  • boundaries
  • toxic work environments
  • sexual assault 
  • guilt & shame


In-person & Online Therapy in Sacramento

My Therapy Style


I work with people who are ready to break relationship patterns and transform how they feel in their relationships.


As a society, we are becoming more aware of how our earlier experiences in childhood shape the way we feel in our adult relationships. Some of your current survival strategies, like people-pleasing, staying quiet, and holding back might have been useful to your younger self or even your ancestors at one point in time. But it might be preventing you from fully thriving in the present. It takes time, but it is possible to tend to fearful parts that tell you to keep saying yes, even when it doesn't serve you. It can be extremely uncomfortable at first, even scary, to say 'no' or set limits with others. It requires safety and a willingness to take up space in your life. Making your needs and preferences a priority is a powerful act especially if you had to keep yourself safe by being small.


As your therapist, I will provide warmth, humor, creativity, and curiosity, and be a fierce advocate for your boundaries and needs.If you are ready to deep dive into the experiences and beliefs that are preventing you from making yourself a priority, then give me a call.



I provide in-person counseling in Sacramento, as well as online therapy throughout the state of California.

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When you say yes to others, make sure

you aren’t saying no to yourself.

-Paulo Coehlo


Let’s Work Together!

Call, text or email for your free 15-minute consultation.


During our consultation we can discuss what’s bringing you to therapy, what you are wanting and needing from a therapist, and any questions you might have about my approach and style as a therapist. 

I look forward to connecting with you!


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For individuals who grew up in a household with a parent or caretakers overwhelmed by their own trauma, it was likely that life was unpredictable, stressful, and caused anxiety. As children, our relationship to our caretakers shapes our internal beliefs about ourselves and the world. We see the world through the lens of our caretakers.
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